Minecraft high ping or latency

hi i wanted to play bedrock minecraft with my gf but im behind cg-nat then i was looking around and found zerotier which can work on both ios and windows i messed around with it for a week and hosted a server we both can join but the ping is so high any solutions? (im a new born baby to this stuff)
here’s some detail

zerotier-cli listpeers
200 listpeers <ztaddr> <path> <latency> <version> <role>
200 listpeers 2a86efae2a 2001:0:284a:364:18e5:b17e:bd4a:4b10/27804;16158;16158 17 1.10.2 LEAF
200 listpeers 62f865ae71;13654;2580 483 - PLANET
200 listpeers 778cde7190;13654;3478 -414 - PLANET
200 listpeers cafe04eba9;13654;2790 272 - PLANET
200 listpeers cafe9efeb9;13656;7608 468 - PLANET
200 listpeers e5cd7a9e1c;13656;14196 467 1.10.2 LEAF

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